tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8418939.post2691822042971852619..comments2023-09-23T04:02:58.985-04:00Comments on May Day Cafe: Sandra Tsing Loh and the 'PauseNerissa Nieldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07681807422024958132noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8418939.post-35269564984163620722014-05-14T19:12:12.139-04:002014-05-14T19:12:12.139-04:00I'm not exactly paused myself, but I feel like...I'm not exactly paused myself, but I feel like I got a hint of good things to come when I turned fifty. I've got a new sense of badass independence -- not just that I can shrug off what the world thinks, but that I'm hardly paying attention to the world at all because my own life fascinates me so completely.<br />I love how in this piece you point out your heightened awareness. You are aware of the mothering impulse now, and you are aware that someday it won't be so strong. No judgment, no lament or celebration, just recognizing life in all its colors and stages.Anne Lindleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03901124822783377379noreply@blogger.com